Myles Monthly: 6

As you may know, I didn't decide to start my blog until my son Myles was about 8 months old. And well... now he is 17 months old! So I am focusing on getting caught up with monthly updates and monthly favorites, so I can get, and hopefully stay, up to date with current times.
 
Six Months Old
  January 15th- February 14th, 2013

Statistics

Born: 7 lbs 6 oz and 19.5 inches
Six Months: 18 pounds and 27 inches

Wiggle Worm :)

  Health
Nothing major happened in this department at month 6! Thanks goodness for finally getting a break. Having an infant can be so stressful when something is wrong with them (or even when nothing is wrong, but you can't help but think so). I always have this major fear that something is wrong with Myles, but because he can't tell me, I have no idea it's going on. The longer I am his mother and the more I get to know him though, I have began to learn when he is acting different or something seems off. Still it is so nerve-racking to be responsible for the well-being of another life when they can't fully communicate with you yet. Not knowing what's going on inside his little body really tests my anxiety!

Anywho, we only had one issue this month and that was with dry skin. Since we started taking him swimming once a week, he was getting a couple spots of rough, dry skin. It was mostly on his stomach and never got really bad. I used his regular lotion for a while, but it didn't seem to help, so I went looking for something a little better. I am a big fan of the BabyGanics brand so when I found out they had this BabyGanics Bye Bye Dry Moisturizing Eczema Care Cream,I was all over it. It's kind of pricey, but it works so well and has lasted a long time. I only use it sparingly on the really dry skin, so I still have the same bottle now that I bought then (over a year old). If you are ever in need of some over-the-counter eczema treatment for you little one, I HIGHLY recommend the BabyGanics.   

Myles also got his 6 months shots at his well-check this month. Per usual, I did not attend that part of the check-up (I hide in the waiting room), but Mark said he was pretty tough. I was expecting the worse since his 2 and 4 month shots did not go well, but nothing major happened this time. He was a little more clingy and had a very slight fever, but no puking or screaming for 2 hours straight, so I'd call it a success this time.

Eating
I had plans to wait until 6 months to start Myles on solids. However, I jumped the gun a little and started him at about 5 months and 1 week. I was still desperate to get him to sleep and since nothing I tried thus far made any difference (in fact it was still somehow getting worse), I thought I would give solids a try as my last shot at a miracle sleep solution. Before this, I hadn't done too much research on feeding babies. I just went with what I always knew was a first food: cereal. I bought a box of Gerber Organic baby cereal to start him off with. I mixed it with breast milk to make it into a very thin consistency. I tried giving him a couple of bites. He seemed interested but wasn't really eating any of it. The next day I continued my reading about first foods and because of many articles and studies I read, I decided to not give him cereal anymore. Just the thought of not knowing what is in the box (even if it is organic) was enough for me to nix that idea. 
So over the next week, I started giving him other things to try out. The first thing we tried was avocado mixed with some breast milk. He didn't really eat any of that one either, but I could tell he was understanding the process more and more every time. I did the one new food every 3 days rule, so that I could tell if he was allergic to anything. 
The second fruit he tried was pears. They worked well because I could mash them up very fine to where it was almost just liquid. He ate those fairly well and seemed to like them.

I didn't want to give him anything out of the jar (mostly because again I have no idea what is in there and I am always hearing about recalls and such for canned baby food). I looked up what are good first fruits and vegetables and decided to make my own baby food. 
I just used a normal food chopper to make the food into the right consistency and then I poured each one into these Fresh Baby So Easy Baby Food and Breast Milk Trays. I put them in the freezer and when they were frozen, I popped the cubes out and put them in freezer bags. Each different food went into a different bag labeled with the name and date. I read that most of the fruits and vegetables last 3 months in the freezer.
I made peaches, nectarines, pears, plums, carrots, and sweet potatoes. My only tip is to make sure you don't mix it too long. I did that with the plums and it just became frothy and kind of evaporated (ish).

He also tried baby yogurt towards the end of the month! He really liked it at first, but after a couple of days, he was over it.

Of course our eating experience would not be complete without strong-willed Myles refusing to go about the process in a normal manner. It really only took him about 3 weeks and he was completely over pureed baby foods. Even though I made all his food myself, he began to want nothing to do with it. I continued to put him in his seat and try to feed him a couple times a day, but as the days went on, the less and less he was interested in eating. I didn't want to turn the whole eating process in to something negative and not enjoyable to him, so I stopped pushing him to eat and let him take the lead. 

He really loved chewing on things still so I starting giving him hard fruits and veggies to just chew on. He liked sliced cucumber and potatoes (with a hole in the middle so he could hold on to them), raw carrots, apple and mango slices, and sucking on plums and peaches. Eventually, we just let him do his own thing and I gave up on the baby food for the time being.

Sleeping
Ahh the wonderful sleep category... Not too much to say here. Still not sleeping through the night or with any sort of consistency. He would randomly sleep a 4 hour stretch here and there, but for the most part it was every 2-3 hours in the beginning of the night and then 1-2 or less starting around 5am until he woke up for the day. He was still sleeping in his crib until about 7am. At that time, I was usually so tired of getting up with him that I would bring him in bed with me and let him nurse/sleep until he was ready to fully wake up, usually between 8:30-9:30. 
I was still doing some sleep training with him at night. Whenever he woke up in the beginning part of the night, I would let him cry for about 5 minutes. If he didn't go back to sleep within the 5 minutes, I would get him and nurse him back to sleep. It did seem like he was getting better at staying asleep when I put him back in his crib after nursing him to sleep. I had given up on the miracle sleep solution, so even that small progress was something to be encouraged by! We still had a lot of hard nights, especially when they came after a good night. I would get so frustrated because it seemed like it always happened that he would have 3 good sleeping nights, then he would regress for 4-5 days. It made the bad nights worse, because I knew that it was possible that he could have good nights where he was only waking 3 times and not 13! When I finally learned that I could in no way predict or help his sleep, I was able to manage my stress and anxiety a little better. I had to be consistent in my training, but also come to accept the kind of sleeper he was genetically predisposed to be. It didn't change the fact that I was 6 months into complete exhaustion, but it did change my attitude towards him and the situation (most of the time). 

He was still napping frequently throughout the day. He would nap for about 30 minutes every 1 1/2-2 hours. This usually amounted to 3 naps a day. For how inconsistent his night time sleep was, his naps were pretty predictable. It was nice to know I would have that break, although 30 minutes never went by so fast in my life ;) 

I also completely stopped swaddling this month. I hadn't swaddled for naps since last month, but we were still half swaddling at night time. Around the middle of the month, we went cold turkey and switched to the Baby Merlin's Magic Sleepsuit. I read about it on an internet forum and decided to give it a try as a post-swaddling transition. I can't say it worked as well as the website claims, but it did work really well as a blanket substitution in the winter months. I would dress Myles in a onesie, sleep pants, and socks, and then put him in the sleepsuit. I was not comfortable using a blanket in his crib yet, so this worked perfectly to keep him warm and provide some comfort. 

We also starting using a sound machine every night. I found the myBaby Soundspa Lullaby Sound Machine and Projector at Target and I am so happy with this purchase (more of a review on my monthly favorites post coming up). We still use it now at 17 months. I would put it on the heartbeat sound and let it run all night. I honestly don't think that specific sound helped him sleep, but it is a good white noise to help cover up/drown out other sounds that could wake him up (which sometimes was a lot, because if anyone knows Mark, they know he isn't exactly quiet....)

Crying
Besides the usual reasons (hungry, tired, waking up in the middle of the night, etc), he started getting really frustrated when he couldn't stay sitting up by himself. He couldn't sit up by himself for more than a couple seconds yet, so when he fell over, he would get mad until you helped him sit up again. He also started doing this 'sit-up' thing. Once he was laying on his back, he would try really hard to sit up, but it would only end up being a crunchy. My step-dad would count when he did it and sometimes he would get up to 60+ seconds. He does it in this video (with a bunch of other moving around) towards the end.

Outings

•  Swim classes continued this month. Mark went in with him and I was a little 'mamarazzi' capturing all the cute moments. After only a month, I could already see his progression in and out of the water. I think the swimming definitely helped with his motor skills outside of the pool as well. He was an awesome kicker and started doing the kicking motion while swimming almost immediately.

• We celebrated Myles' Half Birthday at Chuck E Cheese. I know that may sound a little crazy and I did get a lot of flack for this, but 6 months is a big deal to me. I only plan on celebrating his half birthday one more time at 18 months. I just think in the first two years, so much changes monthly and even weekly that every 6 months is more like a year. And the half birthday celebration is just a little outing to some place Myles can have fun for a couple hours.  

       Although he was still too little to do much, he was in awe of everything. He went on some rides, played a little basketball, and chewing on cucumbers. 

He was really into Chuck E... like "Who is this guy riding with me?"

Milestones
First Food (cereal): As I talked about above, Myles had his first taste of food this month. He tried cereal once and then I decided to forgo the grains and start with fruits and veggies. The below picture is his first cereal tasting on January 17, 2013. I don't think he actually ate any, but it was fun trying it all out for the first time.

First Fruits and Veggies: The next food he tried was avocado mixed with breast milk. I think he ate a little of that, but probably not too much. Next was pears, then plums, peaches, sweet potatoes, and yogurt. Because I was doing the 3 days rule, these lasted us the couple weeks before he decided not to eat purees anymore.
 Sorry for the overkill, but here are the many faces of Myles as he tries his first fruits:

Starting to Crawling: In the earlier video, you can see Myles getting on all fours and rocking. This was the start of crawling for him. He officially became a crawler a week after 6 months, so I will be writing about that in month 7. But this month, he started getting the motions down and working up his strength. He was also working really hard on his abs with all his crunches (a little clip in that video as well.)

Says Momma and Mom: Myles' official first word was mom!!! 

Saying DaDa: A couple weeks after 'momma',  Myles' started saying 'dada'.

First time sitting in high chair at a restaurant: We tried the restaurant high chair out for the first time this month. He still wasn't very stable, so putting a blanket around him helped keep him upright. He really liked feeling like a big boy though :)

First time standing on his own: This only happened for a split second, but I had to mention it. While I showering, my parents decided to see if Myles would stand on his own. Below are a couple of the action shots they got. In the top two pictures he is actually standing on his own, but it only lasted a couple seconds.

Big Boy Tub: We finally upgraded to a better bath tub. I hated the one we had and Myles was getting too big for it. He wasn't ready to be in the normal bath yet, so we bought one that was bigger and more appropriate for him. It had one side for him to lay down still, but then the other side was made for him to be able to sit up. It helped bath time a little, but he was going through a phase this month of not liking taking a bath. He would get mad because he didn't want to lay down in the tub, but he still wasn't quite able to sit up on his own. It was hard to wash him and let him play, while holding him in a sitting position, so baths were short this month.

Likes
Sitting up to play, sitting in a high chair, jumperoo, swimming, chewing, and breastfeeding

Dislikes
Bath time, not being able to stay sitting up, when mommy leaves or doesn't feed him the instant he is ready :)

 

Come back to check out my favorites from months five & six!

Raising a Child on a Budget

10 Tips to Raising a Child on a Budget
 

This post was originally written by me and published at MomItForward.com on September 24th, 2013.

When is comes to bringing home baby, money should be the last thing on your mind. Unfortunately though, for most families adding a baby into the household budget is one of the biggest stresses of becoming a new parent. But do not fret; raising a child without breaking the bank is entirely possible (and just as fun!)

1. Get in the Right Mindset—First and foremost, you have to train yourself to not feed into the buying hype that American culture creates. This will be a very real test of your will power, especially if you are a first time parent! In the age of social media, you are constantly being bombarded with images and their associated propaganda. In order to really keep to your budget you have to discipline yourself to be thrifty.

2. Buy Secondhand—This is the number one way to save money. In my opinion, clothes and toys do not need to be bought new. Websites like eBay and Craigslist make it so easy to find items in great used condition for half the price or less than buying new. Also check out consignment and resale shops in your area. Even if you only find a couple of items each time you go, for how much you save, it is totally worth the trip.

3. Purchase Convertible Products—With the higher priced items, buy versions that change with your child; some of those being cribs that convert into toddler beds, high chairs that turn into booster seats, bi/tricycles that adapt to their growth, and car seats that modify to fit changes in age, weight, and safety regulations.

4. Use Discounts—Also don’t buy anything new without using coupons or discounts! I bought all of my big items from Burlington Coat Factory. They are almost always running a 20% off coupon (signing up for emails, coupon with purchase, mail flyers). For monthly necessities, I like using diapers.com; I save money by buying in bulk and getting cash back rewards. Also couponing is huge right now. I've personally never done it, but I know many women who get super cheap and even free baby supplies (mostly wipes and diapers.)

5. Feeding:  When it comes to feeding your baby, breast is the cheapest option. One year’s worth of formula costs around $1,200 (use this calculator). On top of that, you can potentially save hundreds on medical costs through the benefits of breastfeeding (cited here). When your child gets older, you can also save by making your own baby food. Buying premade may be convenient, but making your own baby food will save hundreds (on average about $400 a year via Baby Food Costs chart).

6. Be Selective—Buy necessities first, then only make purchases as needs arise. Many baby items are marketed to make you think you need them, but when it comes down to the actual product NEEDS for raising a baby, the list is quite small. Also do not take tags off of items until you actually use them. That way you can return anything you end up not using.

7. Explore Social Assistance—Many government programs (like WIC, food stamps, and CHIP) should not be overlooked simply because you're afraid of how it may be perceived. There is nothing wrong with getting support through these programs if they are used with integrity. You can get assistance with food, medical costs, and daycare, which will help free up money for other necessities. Many church and other charitable programs in your city are available as well.

8. Accept Free Items—Sign up for the free samples and coupons that many companies offer to new parents, the most popular being formula. Also, you will get an assortment of newborn basics including diapers, wipes, hats, nasal aspirator, brush, etc. to take care of your baby while at the hospital, so bring it all home—it’s FREE!

9. Find Free Play—You do not have to pay out ridiculous monthly dues to get quality play or learning time. Most neighborhood parks and playgrounds are free, story time and reading programs at your local library are of no cost to you, and nearly all museums/zoos have free days a couple times a year.

10. Get Free Books: Never underestimate the power of books! Here is a fun idea to build your child’s library for free: at baby showers or birthday parties ask people to bring an inexpensive, used book in place of a card. Have the giver write a personal message, so it will also double as a memento. I did this for my shower and now Myles has so many great books with really meaningful messages in them.

 What are some of your money saving tips for child rearing?

10 Tips: How to Raise a Child on a Budget

1. Get in the Right Mindset—First and foremost, you have to train yourself to not feed into the buying hype that American culture creates. This will be a very real test of will power, especially for new parents! In the age of social media, you are constantly being bombarded with images and their associated propaganda. In order to really keep to your budget you have to discipline yourself to be thrifty.
2. Buy Secondhand—This is the number one way to save money. In my opinion, clothes and toys do not need to be bought new. Websites like eBay and Craigslist make it so easy to find items in great used condition for half the price or less than buying new. Also check out consignment and resale shops in your area. Even if you only find a couple of items each time you go, for how much you save, it is totally worth the trip.
3. Purchase Convertible items—With the higher priced items, buy versions that change with your child; some of those being cribs that convert into toddler beds, high chairs that turn into booster seats, bi/tricycles that adapt to their growth, and car seats that modify to fit changes in age, weight, and safety regulations.
4. Use Discounts—Also don’t buy anything new without using coupons or discounts! I bought all of my big items from Burlington Coat Factory. They are almost always running a 20% off coupon (signing up for emails, coupon with purchase, mail flyers). I also like using diapers.com; I save money by buying in bulk and getting cash back rewards.
5. Consider Breastfeeding—When it comes to feeding babies, breastfeeding can be the cheapest option. When you child gets older, you can also save by making your own baby food at home. Buying pre-made may be convenient, but making your own baby food can save hundreds (Baby Food Costs chart).
6. Be Selective—Buy necessities first, then only make purchases as needs arise. Many baby items are marketed to make you think you need them, when in reality you might be able to do without. Also do not take tags off of items until you actually use them. That way you can return anything you end up not using.
7. Explore Social Assistance—Many government programs (like WIC, food stamps, and CHIP) should not be overlooked simply because you're afraid of how it may be perceived. There is nothing wrong with getting support through these programs if they are used with integrity. You can get assistance with food, medical costs, and daycare, which will help free up money for other necessities. Many church and other charitable programs are available as well.
8. Accept Free Items—Sign up for the free samples and coupons that many companies offer to new parents, the most popular of which being formula. Also, you will get an assortment of newborn basics including diapers, wipes, hats, nasal aspirator, brush, etc. to take care of your baby while at the hospital, so bring it all home—it’s FREE!
9. Find Free Play—You do not have to pay out ridiculous monthly dues to get quality play or learning time. Most neighborhood parks and playgrounds are free, story time and reading programs at your local library are of no cost to you, and nearly all museums have free days at least once a month.
10. Get Free books: Never underestimate the power of books! Here is a fun idea to build your child’s library for free: for baby showers or birthdays ask people to bring an inexpensive, used book in place of a card. Have the giver write a personal message, so it will also double as a memento.
- See more at: http://momitforward.com/how-to-raise-a-child-on-a-budget#sthash.FZIAqKU8.dpuf

10 Tips: How to Raise a Child on a Budget

1. Get in the Right Mindset—First and foremost, you have to train yourself to not feed into the buying hype that American culture creates. This will be a very real test of will power, especially for new parents! In the age of social media, you are constantly being bombarded with images and their associated propaganda. In order to really keep to your budget you have to discipline yourself to be thrifty.
2. Buy Secondhand—This is the number one way to save money. In my opinion, clothes and toys do not need to be bought new. Websites like eBay and Craigslist make it so easy to find items in great used condition for half the price or less than buying new. Also check out consignment and resale shops in your area. Even if you only find a couple of items each time you go, for how much you save, it is totally worth the trip.
3. Purchase Convertible items—With the higher priced items, buy versions that change with your child; some of those being cribs that convert into toddler beds, high chairs that turn into booster seats, bi/tricycles that adapt to their growth, and car seats that modify to fit changes in age, weight, and safety regulations.
4. Use Discounts—Also don’t buy anything new without using coupons or discounts! I bought all of my big items from Burlington Coat Factory. They are almost always running a 20% off coupon (signing up for emails, coupon with purchase, mail flyers). I also like using diapers.com; I save money by buying in bulk and getting cash back rewards.
5. Consider Breastfeeding—When it comes to feeding babies, breastfeeding can be the cheapest option. When you child gets older, you can also save by making your own baby food at home. Buying pre-made may be convenient, but making your own baby food can save hundreds (Baby Food Costs chart).
6. Be Selective—Buy necessities first, then only make purchases as needs arise. Many baby items are marketed to make you think you need them, when in reality you might be able to do without. Also do not take tags off of items until you actually use them. That way you can return anything you end up not using.
7. Explore Social Assistance—Many government programs (like WIC, food stamps, and CHIP) should not be overlooked simply because you're afraid of how it may be perceived. There is nothing wrong with getting support through these programs if they are used with integrity. You can get assistance with food, medical costs, and daycare, which will help free up money for other necessities. Many church and other charitable programs are available as well.
8. Accept Free Items—Sign up for the free samples and coupons that many companies offer to new parents, the most popular of which being formula. Also, you will get an assortment of newborn basics including diapers, wipes, hats, nasal aspirator, brush, etc. to take care of your baby while at the hospital, so bring it all home—it’s FREE!
9. Find Free Play—You do not have to pay out ridiculous monthly dues to get quality play or learning time. Most neighborhood parks and playgrounds are free, story time and reading programs at your local library are of no cost to you, and nearly all museums have free days at least once a month.
10. Get Free books: Never underestimate the power of books! Here is a fun idea to build your child’s library for free: for baby showers or birthdays ask people to bring an inexpensive, used book in place of a card. Have the giver write a personal message, so it will also double as a memento.
- See more at: http://momitforward.com/how-to-raise-a-child-on-a-budget#sthash.FZIAqKU8.dpuf

10 Tips: How to Raise a Child on a Budget

1. Get in the Right Mindset—First and foremost, you have to train yourself to not feed into the buying hype that American culture creates. This will be a very real test of will power, especially for new parents! In the age of social media, you are constantly being bombarded with images and their associated propaganda. In order to really keep to your budget you have to discipline yourself to be thrifty.
2. Buy Secondhand—This is the number one way to save money. In my opinion, clothes and toys do not need to be bought new. Websites like eBay and Craigslist make it so easy to find items in great used condition for half the price or less than buying new. Also check out consignment and resale shops in your area. Even if you only find a couple of items each time you go, for how much you save, it is totally worth the trip.
3. Purchase Convertible items—With the higher priced items, buy versions that change with your child; some of those being cribs that convert into toddler beds, high chairs that turn into booster seats, bi/tricycles that adapt to their growth, and car seats that modify to fit changes in age, weight, and safety regulations.
4. Use Discounts—Also don’t buy anything new without using coupons or discounts! I bought all of my big items from Burlington Coat Factory. They are almost always running a 20% off coupon (signing up for emails, coupon with purchase, mail flyers). I also like using diapers.com; I save money by buying in bulk and getting cash back rewards.
5. Consider Breastfeeding—When it comes to feeding babies, breastfeeding can be the cheapest option. When you child gets older, you can also save by making your own baby food at home. Buying pre-made may be convenient, but making your own baby food can save hundreds (Baby Food Costs chart).
6. Be Selective—Buy necessities first, then only make purchases as needs arise. Many baby items are marketed to make you think you need them, when in reality you might be able to do without. Also do not take tags off of items until you actually use them. That way you can return anything you end up not using.
7. Explore Social Assistance—Many government programs (like WIC, food stamps, and CHIP) should not be overlooked simply because you're afraid of how it may be perceived. There is nothing wrong with getting support through these programs if they are used with integrity. You can get assistance with food, medical costs, and daycare, which will help free up money for other necessities. Many church and other charitable programs are available as well.
8. Accept Free Items—Sign up for the free samples and coupons that many companies offer to new parents, the most popular of which being formula. Also, you will get an assortment of newborn basics including diapers, wipes, hats, nasal aspirator, brush, etc. to take care of your baby while at the hospital, so bring it all home—it’s FREE!
9. Find Free Play—You do not have to pay out ridiculous monthly dues to get quality play or learning time. Most neighborhood parks and playgrounds are free, story time and reading programs at your local library are of no cost to you, and nearly all museums have free days at least once a month.
10. Get Free books: Never underestimate the power of books! Here is a fun idea to build your child’s library for free: for baby showers or birthdays ask people to bring an inexpensive, used book in place of a card. Have the giver write a personal message, so it will also double as a memento.
- See more at: http://momitforward.com/how-to-raise-a-child-on-a-budget#sthash.FZIAqKU8.dpufv

10 Tips: How to Raise a Child on a Budget

1. Get in the Right Mindset—First and foremost, you have to train yourself to not feed into the buying hype that American culture creates. This will be a very real test of will power, especially for new parents! In the age of social media, you are constantly being bombarded with images and their associated propaganda. In order to really keep to your budget you have to discipline yourself to be thrifty.
2. Buy Secondhand—This is the number one way to save money. In my opinion, clothes and toys do not need to be bought new. Websites like eBay and Craigslist make it so easy to find items in great used condition for half the price or less than buying new. Also check out consignment and resale shops in your area. Even if you only find a couple of items each time you go, for how much you save, it is totally worth the trip.
3. Purchase Convertible items—With the higher priced items, buy versions that change with your child; some of those being cribs that convert into toddler beds, high chairs that turn into booster seats, bi/tricycles that adapt to their growth, and car seats that modify to fit changes in age, weight, and safety regulations.
4. Use Discounts—Also don’t buy anything new without using coupons or discounts! I bought all of my big items from Burlington Coat Factory. They are almost always running a 20% off coupon (signing up for emails, coupon with purchase, mail flyers). I also like using diapers.com; I save money by buying in bulk and getting cash back rewards.
5. Consider Breastfeeding—When it comes to feeding babies, breastfeeding can be the cheapest option. When you child gets older, you can also save by making your own baby food at home. Buying pre-made may be convenient, but making your own baby food can save hundreds (Baby Food Costs chart).
6. Be Selective—Buy necessities first, then only make purchases as needs arise. Many baby items are marketed to make you think you need them, when in reality you might be able to do without. Also do not take tags off of items until you actually use them. That way you can return anything you end up not using.
7. Explore Social Assistance—Many government programs (like WIC, food stamps, and CHIP) should not be overlooked simply because you're afraid of how it may be perceived. There is nothing wrong with getting support through these programs if they are used with integrity. You can get assistance with food, medical costs, and daycare, which will help free up money for other necessities. Many church and other charitable programs are available as well.
8. Accept Free Items—Sign up for the free samples and coupons that many companies offer to new parents, the most popular of which being formula. Also, you will get an assortment of newborn basics including diapers, wipes, hats, nasal aspirator, brush, etc. to take care of your baby while at the hospital, so bring it all home—it’s FREE!
9. Find Free Play—You do not have to pay out ridiculous monthly dues to get quality play or learning time. Most neighborhood parks and playgrounds are free, story time and reading programs at your local library are of no cost to you, and nearly all museums have free days at least once a month.
10. Get Free books: Never underestimate the power of books! Here is a fun idea to build your child’s library for free: for baby showers or birthdays ask people to bring an inexpensive, used book in place of a card. Have the giver write a personal message, so it will also double as a memento.
- See more at: http://momitforward.com/how-to-raise-a-child-on-a-budget#sthash.FZIAqKU8.dpuf

10 Tips: How to Raise a Child on a Budget

1. Get in the Right Mindset—First and foremost, you have to train yourself to not feed into the buying hype that American culture creates. This will be a very real test of will power, especially for new parents! In the age of social media, you are constantly being bombarded with images and their associated propaganda. In order to really keep to your budget you have to discipline yourself to be thrifty.
2. Buy Secondhand—This is the number one way to save money. In my opinion, clothes and toys do not need to be bought new. Websites like eBay and Craigslist make it so easy to find items in great used condition for half the price or less than buying new. Also check out consignment and resale shops in your area. Even if you only find a couple of items each time you go, for how much you save, it is totally worth the trip.
3. Purchase Convertible items—With the higher priced items, buy versions that change with your child; some of those being cribs that convert into toddler beds, high chairs that turn into booster seats, bi/tricycles that adapt to their growth, and car seats that modify to fit changes in age, weight, and safety regulations.
4. Use Discounts—Also don’t buy anything new without using coupons or discounts! I bought all of my big items from Burlington Coat Factory. They are almost always running a 20% off coupon (signing up for emails, coupon with purchase, mail flyers). I also like using diapers.com; I save money by buying in bulk and getting cash back rewards.
5. Consider Breastfeeding—When it comes to feeding babies, breastfeeding can be the cheapest option. When you child gets older, you can also save by making your own baby food at home. Buying pre-made may be convenient, but making your own baby food can save hundreds (Baby Food Costs chart).
6. Be Selective—Buy necessities first, then only make purchases as needs arise. Many baby items are marketed to make you think you need them, when in reality you might be able to do without. Also do not take tags off of items until you actually use them. That way you can return anything you end up not using.
7. Explore Social Assistance—Many government programs (like WIC, food stamps, and CHIP) should not be overlooked simply because you're afraid of how it may be perceived. There is nothing wrong with getting support through these programs if they are used with integrity. You can get assistance with food, medical costs, and daycare, which will help free up money for other necessities. Many church and other charitable programs are available as well.
8. Accept Free Items—Sign up for the free samples and coupons that many companies offer to new parents, the most popular of which being formula. Also, you will get an assortment of newborn basics including diapers, wipes, hats, nasal aspirator, brush, etc. to take care of your baby while at the hospital, so bring it all home—it’s FREE!
9. Find Free Play—You do not have to pay out ridiculous monthly dues to get quality play or learning time. Most neighborhood parks and playgrounds are free, story time and reading programs at your local library are of no cost to you, and nearly all museums have free days at least once a month.
10. Get Free books: Never underestimate the power of books! Here is a fun idea to build your child’s library for free: for baby showers or birthdays ask people to bring an inexpensive, used book in place of a card. Have the giver write a personal message, so it will also double as a memento.
- See more at: http://momitforward.com/how-to-raise-a-child-on-a-budget#sthash.FZIAqKU8.dpuf

10 Tips: How to Raise a Child on a Budget

1. Get in the Right Mindset—First and foremost, you have to train yourself to not feed into the buying hype that American culture creates. This will be a very real test of will power, especially for new parents! In the age of social media, you are constantly being bombarded with images and their associated propaganda. In order to really keep to your budget you have to discipline yourself to be thrifty.
2. Buy Secondhand—This is the number one way to save money. In my opinion, clothes and toys do not need to be bought new. Websites like eBay and Craigslist make it so easy to find items in great used condition for half the price or less than buying new. Also check out consignment and resale shops in your area. Even if you only find a couple of items each time you go, for how much you save, it is totally worth the trip.
3. Purchase Convertible items—With the higher priced items, buy versions that change with your child; some of those being cribs that convert into toddler beds, high chairs that turn into booster seats, bi/tricycles that adapt to their growth, and car seats that modify to fit changes in age, weight, and safety regulations.
4. Use Discounts—Also don’t buy anything new without using coupons or discounts! I bought all of my big items from Burlington Coat Factory. They are almost always running a 20% off coupon (signing up for emails, coupon with purchase, mail flyers). I also like using diapers.com; I save money by buying in bulk and getting cash back rewards.
5. Consider Breastfeeding—When it comes to feeding babies, breastfeeding can be the cheapest option. When you child gets older, you can also save by making your own baby food at home. Buying pre-made may be convenient, but making your own baby food can save hundreds (Baby Food Costs chart).
6. Be Selective—Buy necessities first, then only make purchases as needs arise. Many baby items are marketed to make you think you need them, when in reality you might be able to do without. Also do not take tags off of items until you actually use them. That way you can return anything you end up not using.
7. Explore Social Assistance—Many government programs (like WIC, food stamps, and CHIP) should not be overlooked simply because you're afraid of how it may be perceived. There is nothing wrong with getting support through these programs if they are used with integrity. You can get assistance with food, medical costs, and daycare, which will help free up money for other necessities. Many church and other charitable programs are available as well.
8. Accept Free Items—Sign up for the free samples and coupons that many companies offer to new parents, the most popular of which being formula. Also, you will get an assortment of newborn basics including diapers, wipes, hats, nasal aspirator, brush, etc. to take care of your baby while at the hospital, so bring it all home—it’s FREE!
9. Find Free Play—You do not have to pay out ridiculous monthly dues to get quality play or learning time. Most neighborhood parks and playgrounds are free, story time and reading programs at your local library are of no cost to you, and nearly all museums have free days at least once a month.
10. Get Free books: Never underestimate the power of books! Here is a fun idea to build your child’s library for free: for baby showers or birthdays ask people to bring an inexpensive, used book in place of a card. Have the giver write a personal message, so it will also double as a memento.
- See more at: http://momitforward.com/how-to-raise-a-child-on-a-budget#sthash.FZIAqKU8.dpuf

10 Tips: How to Raise a Child on a Budget

1. Get in the Right Mindset—First and foremost, you have to train yourself to not feed into the buying hype that American culture creates. This will be a very real test of will power, especially for new parents! In the age of social media, you are constantly being bombarded with images and their associated propaganda. In order to really keep to your budget you have to discipline yourself to be thrifty.
2. Buy Secondhand—This is the number one way to save money. In my opinion, clothes and toys do not need to be bought new. Websites like eBay and Craigslist make it so easy to find items in great used condition for half the price or less than buying new. Also check out consignment and resale shops in your area. Even if you only find a couple of items each time you go, for how much you save, it is totally worth the trip.
3. Purchase Convertible items—With the higher priced items, buy versions that change with your child; some of those being cribs that convert into toddler beds, high chairs that turn into booster seats, bi/tricycles that adapt to their growth, and car seats that modify to fit changes in age, weight, and safety regulations.
4. Use Discounts—Also don’t buy anything new without using coupons or discounts! I bought all of my big items from Burlington Coat Factory. They are almost always running a 20% off coupon (signing up for emails, coupon with purchase, mail flyers). I also like using diapers.com; I save money by buying in bulk and getting cash back rewards.
5. Consider Breastfeeding—When it comes to feeding babies, breastfeeding can be the cheapest option. When you child gets older, you can also save by making your own baby food at home. Buying pre-made may be convenient, but making your own baby food can save hundreds (Baby Food Costs chart).
6. Be Selective—Buy necessities first, then only make purchases as needs arise. Many baby items are marketed to make you think you need them, when in reality you might be able to do without. Also do not take tags off of items until you actually use them. That way you can return anything you end up not using.
7. Explore Social Assistance—Many government programs (like WIC, food stamps, and CHIP) should not be overlooked simply because you're afraid of how it may be perceived. There is nothing wrong with getting support through these programs if they are used with integrity. You can get assistance with food, medical costs, and daycare, which will help free up money for other necessities. Many church and other charitable programs are available as well.
8. Accept Free Items—Sign up for the free samples and coupons that many companies offer to new parents, the most popular of which being formula. Also, you will get an assortment of newborn basics including diapers, wipes, hats, nasal aspirator, brush, etc. to take care of your baby while at the hospital, so bring it all home—it’s FREE!
9. Find Free Play—You do not have to pay out ridiculous monthly dues to get quality play or learning time. Most neighborhood parks and playgrounds are free, story time and reading programs at your local library are of no cost to you, and nearly all museums have free days at least once a month.
10. Get Free books: Never underestimate the power of books! Here is a fun idea to build your child’s library for free: for baby showers or birthdays ask people to bring an inexpensive, used book in place of a card. Have the giver write a personal message, so it will also double as a memento.
- See more at: http://momitforward.com/how-to-raise-a-child-on-a-budget#sthash.FZIAqKU8.dpuf

10 Tips: How to Raise a Child on a Budget

1. Get in the Right Mindset—First and foremost, you have to train yourself to not feed into the buying hype that American culture creates. This will be a very real test of will power, especially for new parents! In the age of social media, you are constantly being bombarded with images and their associated propaganda. In order to really keep to your budget you have to discipline yourself to be thrifty.
2. Buy Secondhand—This is the number one way to save money. In my opinion, clothes and toys do not need to be bought new. Websites like eBay and Craigslist make it so easy to find items in great used condition for half the price or less than buying new. Also check out consignment and resale shops in your area. Even if you only find a couple of items each time you go, for how much you save, it is totally worth the trip.
3. Purchase Convertible items—With the higher priced items, buy versions that change with your child; some of those being cribs that convert into toddler beds, high chairs that turn into booster seats, bi/tricycles that adapt to their growth, and car seats that modify to fit changes in age, weight, and safety regulations.
4. Use Discounts—Also don’t buy anything new without using coupons or discounts! I bought all of my big items from Burlington Coat Factory. They are almost always running a 20% off coupon (signing up for emails, coupon with purchase, mail flyers). I also like using diapers.com; I save money by buying in bulk and getting cash back rewards.
5. Consider Breastfeeding—When it comes to feeding babies, breastfeeding can be the cheapest option. When you child gets older, you can also save by making your own baby food at home. Buying pre-made may be convenient, but making your own baby food can save hundreds (Baby Food Costs chart).
6. Be Selective—Buy necessities first, then only make purchases as needs arise. Many baby items are marketed to make you think you need them, when in reality you might be able to do without. Also do not take tags off of items until you actually use them. That way you can return anything you end up not using.
7. Explore Social Assistance—Many government programs (like WIC, food stamps, and CHIP) should not be overlooked simply because you're afraid of how it may be perceived. There is nothing wrong with getting support through these programs if they are used with integrity. You can get assistance with food, medical costs, and daycare, which will help free up money for other necessities. Many church and other charitable programs are available as well.
8. Accept Free Items—Sign up for the free samples and coupons that many companies offer to new parents, the most popular of which being formula. Also, you will get an assortment of newborn basics including diapers, wipes, hats, nasal aspirator, brush, etc. to take care of your baby while at the hospital, so bring it all home—it’s FREE!
9. Find Free Play—You do not have to pay out ridiculous monthly dues to get quality play or learning time. Most neighborhood parks and playgrounds are free, story time and reading programs at your local library are of no cost to you, and nearly all museums have free days at least once a month.
10. Get Free books: Never underestimate the power of books! Here is a fun idea to build your child’s library for free: for baby showers or birthdays ask people to bring an inexpensive, used book in place of a card. Have the giver write a personal message, so it will also double as a memento.
- See more at: http://momitforward.com/how-to-raise-a-child-on-a-budget#sthash.FZIAqKU8.dpuf

Money should be the least of your worries when bringing home a new baby. Unfortunately, for most adding a baby into the household budget is one of the biggest stresses of becoming a new parent. But do not fret; raising a child without breaking the bank is entirely possible. - See more at: http://momitforward.com/how-to-raise-a-child-on-a-budget

Money should be the least of your worries when bringing home a new baby. Unfortunately, for most adding a baby into the household budget is one of the biggest stresses of becoming a new parent. But do not fret; raising a child without breaking the bank is entirely possible. - See more at: http://momitforward.com/how-to-raise-a-child-on-a-budget#sthash.FZIAqKU8.dpuf

Money should be the least of your worries when bringing home a new baby. Unfortunately, for most adding a baby into the household budget is one of the biggest stresses of becoming a new parent. But do not fret; raising a child without breaking the bank is entirely possible. - See more at: http://momitforward.com/how-to-raise-a-child-on-a-budget#sthash.FZIAqKU8.dpuf

Get to Know Me: Blogger Behind the Blog!

I am back! My three week vacation back home was such a special time for Myles and I that I didn't want to spend too much of it on my blog. I tried limiting my computer and phone time, and while I know I wasn't perfect, I think I did a pretty good job (although I'm sure my mom and step-dad would say otherwise)! Now that we are officially back home and mostly settled back into our normal, I am ready to tackle some new posts. My major goal in this new year is to finally get caught up on my Myles Monthly posts... I'm still stuck on six months and in a week he will be 17 months! It takes me forever to write them, because I tend to write every single detail I can think of. At this point, I just need to suck it up and get them done, otherwise I am going to forget every detail! So please send any bloggy motivation and positive thoughts this way!

And after all that, here I am NOT writing my Myles Monthly post...lol... I promise I will get to it tomorrow. But for now, I wanted to do a little fun get to know me post since I really haven't shared too much about myself lately.

Here are my answers to a random assortment of 30 questions:

1. WERE YOU NAMED AFTER ANYONE?
I am actually named after two people. It worked out well for my parents naming me because they both had a 'Julia' that was special to them. It definitely was a lot easier than when I had to name my son (re: What's Your Name?) My mother's mother's mother, aka my great-grandmother, was named Julia. Also my father had someone really special in his life named Julia. She watched him a lot as a child and he claims she was a clairvoyant. He told her if he ever had a girl he would name her after her... so here I am Julia. 

2. DO YOU LIKE YOUR HANDWRITING?
Well I am left handed, so that should answer that question... But really, no, I don't like my handwriting. It's very sloppy because for the most part, I can't stand writing. I try to write as fast as possible, so it is usually just a big mess. Nobody can read my writing, even I sometimes have trouble deciphering it. When I am actually trying, I can make it look nice and presentable though. I like to make cool lettering for my scrapbooks and crafts, but my everyday writing is crap.

3. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE LUNCH MEAT?
Funny this question is asked. When I was younger I was all about ham. All I ever wanted was ham; on all my sandwiches and even my dinner meat. When Mark and I first met, I was still in 'ham only mode' and he was a turkey man. Once we started living together, we always had to buy ham for me and turkey for him, and neither of us would eat the other! Fast forward about 4 years, and the table's completely turned and it still that way now. I really only like turkey, honey turkey to be exact, and Mark prefers ham. I can't even stand to eat ham as lunch meat now. So funny how tastes can change.  

4. IF YOU WERE ANOTHER PERSON, WOULD YOU BE FRIENDS WITH YOU?
I would like to think so, but I am not a big people person. I mostly keep to myself, so I don't know if I would befriend me if I was another person :)

5. WOULD YOU BUNGEE JUMP?
I would say yes, but I am not sure I would actually go through with it once I got up there.
 

6. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE CEREAL?
Cereal is my most favorite food, so it is not possible to pick one, but some of my favorites are Berry, Berry Kix, Strawberry Mini-Wheats, Greek Honey Bunches of Oats, A Touch of Fruit Mini-Wheats, and Special K with Berries. 

7. DO YOU UNTIE YOUR SHOES WHEN YOU TAKE THEM OFF?
Nope...never..ever...ever!

8. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE ICE CREAM?
Not so much an ice cream fan. I like mint chocolate, but my favorites are ones with fruit and/or nuts. I am more of a sorbet gal though: red raspberry being my favorite.
 

9. WHAT IS THE FIRST THING YOU NOTICE ABOUT PEOPLE?
Teeth.. I always look at teeth first... Teeth are make it or break it for me!

10. WHAT IS THE LEAST FAVORITE THING ABOUT YOURSELF?
My skin... I pretty much hate everything about my skin. I have had problems with acne on and off since I was a teen. It came back worse than ever about 3 years ago and even though it finally chilled out, I got some pretty bad scars this time around. I have always just wanted to be able to not have to wear make-up and feel confident, but I have pretty much let that dream go. I also have stretch marks from gaining weight years ago and a few from being pregnant. I absolutely hate them :(

11. WHO DO YOU MISS THE MOST?
I have to cop out and list more than one:
My grandparents: especially my grandmother who passed away far too early.
My family back home: even though I just got to spend 3 weeks with them, it's still not enough when I am 2,000 miles away.
My Floridians: the best friends I have ever made. I wish I could scoop them up and bring them out here to live!

12. WHAT WAS THE LAST THING YOU ATE?
I would like to say what I had for dinner, which was whole wheat spaghetti with meat sauce; but that would be a lie because after dinner I had Ben & Jerry's Greek Frozen Yogurt Strawberry Shortcake... go buy it now! I don't even feel guilty afterwards :)
 

13. WHAT ARE YOU LISTENING TO RIGHT NOW?
The furnace blowing out air.
 

14. IF YOU WERE A CRAYON, WHAT COLOR WOULD YOU BE?
Grey
 

15. FAVORITE SMELLS?
Baby just out of the bath, dryer sheets, and any yummy dinner smells filling the house
 

16. MOUNTAIN HIDEAWAY OR BEACH HOUSE?
Beach house... not even a slight hesitation! I am a beach/water girl all the way! Love the sound of the waves and the light breeze coming from the ocean.. Heaven!

17. FAVORITE SPORTS TO WATCH?
Used to be basketball when I followed my favorite team the Sacramento Kings circa 2001-2003. Now I actually really like watching football, namely the Packers! I love raising Myles as a Packer fan (thanks to family)!
I also love watching summer Olympics! I actually should use the word obsessed rather than love. Of course, gymnastics is my favorite, but I watch all of it! During summer Olympic time that is all that is on my TV!

18. FAVORITE FOOD?
Of all time: mashed potatoes, good pizza, and cereal
Currently: egg salad

19. SCARY MOVIES OR HAPPY ENDINGS?
I hate scary movies. I have no interest in watching any sort of scary movie. However, I am not really into happy endings either. I like comedies the best, but I would be perfectly content with no happy endings. They end up always being so corny and predictable. 
 

20. LAST MOVIE YOU WATCHED?
Toy Story with Myles.. a total Disney classic. I love that he is getting interested in stories now. We have found a couple movies that have actually kept his interest for most of the movie, so it's fun introducing him to my old favorites.
 

21. SUMMER OR WINTER?
I don't like 90-100 degree weather, but I HATE winter.. like real, midwest winters... I just went back for three weeks and it was total torture braving the blistering cold and snow! NO THANK YOU! Thank God for California :)

22. HUGS OR KISSES?
Neither really... except from my son. I'm not a lovey, touchy person. Hugs are usually pretty awkward for me, so I tend to shy away from them (outside of family). 

23. STRENGTH TRAINING OR CARDIO?
I like lifting because of the variety and it's more fast paced, but I always do cardio because I need more endurance and calories (fat) burned.

24. COMPUTER OR TELEVISION?
Computer... we have a TV but we don't have cable, so we rarely watch anything on it. We mostly do Netflix on the Apple TV. Otherwise, I keep up with the few shows I watch on the computer (Bob's Burgers, Big Bang Theory, and Glee).

25. WHAT IS ON YOUR MOUSE PAD?
I have a mouse pad but I don't use it because I have a laptop. The mouse pad I have is a keepsake so I keep it around even though I don't use it. It is a picture my younger brother drew when he was in elementary school. It was something he drew in school and then they turned it into a mouse pad. It is an under water scene with a boat and fish. I love having it around because it reminds me of when he was little and my best friend!

26. FAVORITE SOUND?
My son's laugh.. without a doubt, the best sound in the world! 
It makes everything all better :)

27. ROLLING STONES OR BEATLES?
Beatles... 100% all the way and my favorite Beatles song is "I Saw Her Standing There". When I was younger I had this video tape with a bunch of cartoons recorded on it and one of them was this cartoon video of the song "I Saw Her Standing There". It's kind of weird and I have no idea where it came from, but I watched it all the time. And to this day, it remains my favorite Beatles song just because of the childhood memories it brings back. 

28. WHAT IS THE FARTHEST YOU HAVE BEEN FROM HOME?
Not very... the Bahamas on a cruise with my most favorite Floridians :)

29. WHERE WERE YOU BORN? 
Rockford, Illinois (about 90 miles northwest of Chicago)

30. WHAT COLOR IS YOUR CAR?
I guess you would call it a teal. It's not full on green, but not blue either.

Winter 2013 Family Photos

I was a little late to the Christmas card game, so I decided to do a New Years card instead. I like the idea of a New Years card better anyhow, because then you won't be committing a total faux pas if you keep it up well past Christmas ;)

We just went to a park by us and had Mark's cousin Alex take the pictures for us. We had a good time and Myles was super excited about all the birds and ducks. He just kept pointing at them and saying "Ooooo".  Here are a few shots from the day:

Pointing at all the birds.

And here are a few outtakes for your viewing pleasure:

Did you take holiday pictures? Have you sent out your Christmas/New Years cards?